This I Believe

I believe that everyone deserves a friend. Regardless of age, intellectual capabilities, or socioeconomic status, there is an emotional and natural need for such companionship. I learned this to be true when I began participating in Best Buddies, a program dedicated to creating friendships between people with mental disabilities and their non-disabled peers.
My own friends introduced me to the program my senior year of high school, and I knew it was something I would want to pursue throughout my college career. I was lucky to be paired up my freshman year with Tom. Rolling into the room on his wheelchair, Tom greeted me with a huge smile. It was actually Tom who broke the ice by telling me a joke. We talked about our interests and families, and quickly found we had a lot in common. In particular, we both love to eat!
Over the next few months, Tom and I continued to talk and participate in group buddy activities. We would go bowling, out to eat, and gather with the other members once a month for a party or outing. Tom and I are fortunate in that we will be paired together for all four years I will be at Siena College.
One day I was talking with Tom’s mother and she was telling me how much my companionship meant to their family. Even though my graduation date was over two years away, she asked if she and Tom could attend. Her humble request made me realize how significant the simple gesture of friendship can be. Not only had Tom and I developed a friendship, but we had become part of each other’s families. Even my grandparents will ask how Tom is doing when I talk to them.
Becoming a part of Best Buddies has had a major influence on shaping my personal beliefs. It made me realize how important friendship is for everyone.