what are they thinking???

I was shocked to hear this story. At first I didnt want to believe it because i like chris brown, but then we really dont know his true personality we only see how he is portrayed by the media. I believe that it is wrong if a guy or a girl hits someone or is abusive in a relationship. First off, it shows a lack of respect and it also shows a lack of control. I dont understand why some people in society believe that its acceptable to inflict any sort of physical harm. The fact that the girls did not blame chris brown for his actions shows that something is not clicking in their heads. i believe that this has something to do with their upbringing or their environment in which they live. I just think that its completely unacceptable to blame the victim in this situation.